I'm sure the dinner will be lovely
Just a word of caution for a newbie: don't expect it to be the same as back home.... my first Thanksgiving many moons ago was spent making a fabulous meal for 10 dear friends....who all disappeared promptly 2 hours after arriving. To them, it was just a neat dinner party...
Not an opportunity to eat all day and all night.....
If someone had just warned me that it's really only going to be a special day for me and possibly hubbs, it would've saved an evening of sobbing in my tea towel. :\\\'(
Yeah, I have already realized that, I think. I am preparing myself for a bit of disappointment. I think my in-laws will think of it as just another Sunday dinner, except it's on Thursday night. We aren't having dinner until 6:30 or 7 pm because most of DH's family has to work, but my family usually always has the dinner around 1 or 2 pm. Anyway, usually everyone in my family leaves 2 hours later, and I would sometimes then make the rounds to my best friend's house, etc., to pick at their leftovers...

I will miss my best friend's famous cheesecake this year!
But I do feel happy because my bros-in-law are taking a half day off to come to the dinner, and they all seem to be looking forward to it to some extent, so at least they are coming to celebrate with me. And I will get to see my family and friends on the webcam before and after dinner, so that helps a bit!

And there is always alcohol to ease the pain....