I'm not disagreeing that it was an innocent mistake. But it was a mistake. I just think the general attitude of "how could they do this to us?" to be self-defeating is all.
They didn't do their research. Lots of people don't do their research. Lots of people get caught up in this very thing. That's why there are posts in this board, and I am sure many others that address them.
If the regulations that snagged them are unfair is not really for me to judge. There are people on this board who are much more qualified to make this call, such as garry and persephone and Vicky and kitsonk and everyone else who advocates on behalf of people like us. (insert stirring musical strain here.
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And I think the OP did right by coming here after the refusal to get advice on what their next step should be and if there's a chance to reverse the decision and to get a handle on where to go from here. But the more he focuses on how the UK Immigration done him wrong, the less he'll focus on how to make sure the next time his gf is standing in front of an ECO or the next time her case is in front of the consular staff, they'd done their utmost to make sure that the mistakes they made this time around are not repeated. Meaning, research the rules, know the rules and to the best of your ability follow the rules! Assume border agents never give an inch on interpretation, and go from there.
I do wish the OP and his gf lots of luck in rectifying this. And if it is possible to get the decision reversed, I hope for their sake that it's reversed (though from reading this thread, it does not seem likely.) The best way to go forward is to make sure to follow policy, no matter how asinine, and at the same time help people like garry, et al, in their work of making policy a tiny bit less asinine.
On that note, I do hope that OP's gf gives garry a writeup of her experiences while detained. It's a problem that should absolutely be handled and garry needs all the help he can get in handling it.