I'm fine (at the moment), but if DH looses his job then I guess we're in huge trouble. I never thought of Child Support, Alimony, Student Debt and Taxes as I pretty much figured that those are taken very seriously. I was thinking more along the lines of:
House can't sell in this market, market keeps going down so you end up with negative equity. Even if house sells you are left owing money to the lender or a foreclosure.
Upside down on a Truck and a Boat. If you hand them back to the lien holders and they then auction them off you are then liable for the difference which in my case would be about $10,000 on each.
As I said none of this is an issue while DH still has a job.
But with the economy tanking and things not looking good I was just wondering about these things. I have already talked with the Lien Holders about the truck and boat in a worst case scenario and they both said that they would be auctioned off with the remainder of the money being re-fied into a 2/3 yr personal loan.
Sometimes it feels tempting to just hand everything back

not that I want to as I hate having this debt over my head and would try to do everything in my power to pay off the losses accrued but if the house drops anymore I won't have any equity to pay those loses. Realtor fees are just too damn high.
The only thing stopping us moving back to the UK right now is my dog. We want her to pass away first as we would never forgive ourselves if she died on the trip home to the UK. She could have anywhere from weeks to months to a year or maybe more left. 12yr old German Shepherd Dog. She just lost her 9 yr old younger brother which was a total shock out of nowhere. DH & I decided that we didn't want to be alone in the US anymore going through the grieving process. We want to be back with family in the UK. Loss is inevitable in life and with parents getting older everyday I dread that phone call from the UK one day.
Question is:-
Do you define yourselves by what you own in life, eg..house, boat, truck, plasma tv, PS3 etc.. etc.. etc... or
Do you define yourselves by the relationships you have with those in your life and around you.
Both can make you happy but as my Mum always says "you can't take any of it with you and it's the good memories you leave behind that count the most".
So, during our recent grief a light bulb went off over our heads and we realized that we were chasing this materialistic happiness, trying to fill a void. The void never fills up though when you aren't truly happy. We now just want to go home (my home, my DH's home is where I am according to him

). DH will be happy anywhere as long as he can go to a gym and fish

.
So as you see by my nice long winded reply I was only thinking about the house, truck and boat debt.
