Hi! I'm around just not much on here at the mo'.
I've gone back to the gym now that we're not constantly travelling to & fro, so I'll have time to get stuck in. I have a new trainer there who is hopefully going to stick around for longer than 2 weeks, so (fingers crossed) hoping to have some continuity with that!
One thing I have decided is that I am never going on another diet again, ever. Yes you read it right! That's not to say that I am not going to work to improve the healthiness of what I eat, but a 'diet' - no. The track record for diets just doesn't support them - 95% of people gain it back (and often more). The easiest weight I ever lost was when I swapped my US fast food & convenience food eating for just eating what my husband eats. And in the last year, I've witnessed a couple work mates develop fullblown eating disorders off (well respected, commercial group meeting kind of) 'diets'.
I have been doing a bit of reading lately supporting this - encompassing stuff on emotional eating, managing mood & hormones etc (I'm getting all wacky perimenopausal), mindfulness & meditation, light therapy (for SAD), etc.
One thing I'm reading now is a book called
Full: A Life Without Dieting: Weight-Loss Secrets from a Weight-Loss Surgeon by a Dr. Michael Snyder, and a couple things that helped me from it are - 1) Pick one thing & just start working on that (exercise, eating more fruit & veg, simple things like that). Don't make it complicated or grandiose. Get going with it, then add something else... 2) You don't have to be perfect. Most of the stuff he talks about is really just common sense & not a lot I didn't know already, but it's been encouraging & motivating. And I always get hung up on the 'having to be perfect' bit & feeling like I need to start everything at once, perfectly, and well - I don't. Oh and making your health a priority in your life - he writes about that too.
I don't expect to make lots of progress the first half of this month - as this is my birthday week & we're off for our annual summer self-catering holiday with the in-laws at the end of the week. These things mean - food & booze & cake, more food & booze & cake...