Tone Up

Yes. An enormous difference between "this is where my body likes it" weight and "this is where I would like my body". 

 

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Yes. An enormous difference between "this is where my body likes it" weight and "this is where I would like my body". 

I don't actually disagree - the getting reported for non-existent eating disorders happened when I was in technical training and up to that much healthier weight of 114lbs.  I still looked just as scrawny as ever though, so...

I don't actually disagree - the getting reported for non-existent eating disorders happened when I was in technical training and up to that much healthier weight of 114lbs.  I still looked just as scrawny as ever though, so...

I can totally understand your frustration.  My mom (who is 5'1 and looks like she would blow away in a strong breeze) has *total strangers* come up to her in grocery stores and tell her she should eat more "for the sake of her family".  If they saw her eating twice as much as me and I my dad (a regular occurrence at meals), they'd certainly be surprised.

But, I worry about someone dieting to excess in aiming for a body type that is not natural for him or her.