I'm a little confused.....
You came here in March 2001, then got a Finacee visa *after* living here for 9 months? How in the world did you manage that?
Even a tourist visa waiver expires after 6 months, and they don't seem to look to highly on overstayers when it comes time for Fiancee visas, etc.
If you've been working here through an American company, and depending on what type of work you've been doing here (writers, for example are an exception) your company should have given you some sort of work visa for that purpose.
Also, you got your finacee visa in December 2001, but you are aware that that visa only lasts 6 months right? You should have been married in June 2002 at the very latest. Have you gotten an extension or something? I'm just wondering how you've managed all that really....hope you don't mind my curiosity!!!
To answer your question though, I would think you should definately put the work you've been doing on your CV. Future employers aren't going to likely even ask if you did that work illegally or not. They're just going to care whether or not you're able to work in the country currently, which you will be once you're married and have your visa changed over.
Hope that helps a little and good luck with your upcoming wedding!!!