I have a NI number, and although the original card was issued in my maiden name I have been in contact to update my name and address details now that I have returned to the UK after a long absence. I assumed that I would automatically be issued with a new card (same number, new name), but after waiting three months I called and was told that they don't issue a new card unless I formally request one.
My question is, does it actually matter what name is written on the card, as long as my name is correct in their records? Is there ever going to be a time when I am asked to *show* my NI card as proof of identity, or proof that I have a NI number? I know that in the US a person is often required to show a Social Security card when starting a new job, but I have the sense that here it's not necessary, they just trust you. Is that correct? And is there any other situation when I might be asked to show my card?
I've been told that I can request a replacement card with the correct name, but it seems that there is a lifetime issuance limit of two cards, so maybe I should save my request for a replacement card for something more severe, like if the original card is lost or destroyed in a fire, etc.
What do you think? Am I ever going to have to show this NI card to anyone, or is it really just for my reference? I would be grateful for your advice, as it has been so long since I lived in the UK that I don't remember what the situation is.