Let me start by saying that I am finding myself paranoid about my grammar as I type posts on this thread now

I have been browsing through today's posts as it seems this when things began to get touchy. There are several posts that were off topic and personal but I feel like they were addressed and people moved on from them relatively quickly so I am not going to go back and remove all of them-- if someone has any that they feel they would like removed please let me know and I will give it a second look.
I have removed the more recent personal off-topic comments. I am going to leave the thread locked for tonight and will have one more look tomorrow and then we can try again.
I do find the thread interesting and I can see many others do. It would be nice to be able to continue on with the focus on respecting different points of view.
Moderating expat life is usually easy-- and I don't believe in jumping in most of the time-- thank you all who tried to refocus the discussion.