I just had a look around processing time standards for last year. Between July-September of 2009, 588 settlement applications were processed (if I am correct in interpreting that it says "total per qtr" to mean how many in those 3 months) and in looking for this year, 97 were done in July, 52 in august...well below last year! Or so I would assume, if I have read the numbers correctly...and these are for New York by the way. So it seems like customer service standards should be a little better this year, though it did say that previous to April 2010 standards were different. Anybody know what they used to be?
I'll admit, I did know there was a priority option, but I did not use it, because I am on a budget, and when checking the processing times, they had May listed in August (a little late updating, if I'm allowed to say) and it seemed like the turn-around would be fairly quick. I did not foresee the massive influx of student visas coming, again my own fault.
But that doesn't mean I don't miss my husband. I am 21, and still living in my parental home. Just about ready to start making my own life now, and yes I'm stressed out with the waiting. There's lots of reasons why, lots of speculating, and none of us really know what's going on. But people, live and let live. Someone wants to vent, I'm sorry it offends you, but it does mean you're allowed to counter-vent without repercussions. We all have separate situations, and we all think we deserve a fair system, but "fair" is subjective, so let's stop the fighting. We're all here to support eachother. We may feel jealousy or angst or sadness, but we're allowed to. So are the happy people. We all want to move on in life, so let's wish those who have done so well, and empathise with those who haven't yet. I really am starting to feel that it will be a matter of "when" I get my answer, as opposed to "if" I get a yes answer, which has helped in my own thinking. I don't feel as stressed out about it. That's not to say I expect a yes, but it helps myself to think that way so I don't get an ulcer with all the worrying. I really do wish everyone the best of luck, and I really am glad to know so many of us have stopped feeling alone. We're in this together
