From what I can tell, some of the reasons that people should tip in the US don't necessarily apply so much in the UK. From what I've read here and elsewhere online, some restaurant staff in the US get paid only $2.15 an hour and then their tips get them up to minimum wage. Now, as far as I am aware, in the UK the minimum that restaurants must pay per hour is minimum wage, which is currently £5.80 for people aged over 22... converted directly into dollars, £5.80 is $9.16, which is more than 4 times the US wage of $2.15.
So, in the US, you are tipping in order to allow the server to live on a minimum wage, but in the UK, you are tipping because you like the service, as the server already earns a minimum wage anyway so they aren't going to lose any money (that I'm aware of) or not be able to survive if you don't tip.
I'm happy to tip in the US even if the service isn't great, because I know how much they need that tip money, but here in the UK, I know that the server is already earning a decent wage (possibly more than I earn myself) and that a tip is more of a perk than a necessity, so I feel comfortable not tipping or not giving as much tip if the service was bad.
I don't think people should tip for really bad service (although if you ordered cocktails please leave a buck or two so the server isn't OUT money)
Just curious, as I've never worked in a restaurant or bar: how does the server lose money if you don't tip for alcoholic drinks?
I sort of agree. However, your waiter is the kitchen ambassador to your table. One of the things I liked about the service last night was the order of things. The guy got our drinks on the table pretty quickly, and always asked if we wanted another when the glass was empty. The starters came about ten minutes after we had our drinks, which to me is perfect. We were able to start a nice conversation before the food being thrown at us. There was then about 10 minutes between starter and mains which again I really like as I like to be able to enjoy each course without feeling rushed to start on the next.
See, we went out for a work meal a couple of weeks ago and it took an hour between ordering our food and the food actually being served and then I think it took about another 15 minutes after we'd finished eating for the waiter to ask us if we wanted desserts and then another 10 minutes for the desserts to arrive. In total, we were in the restaurant for more than 3 hours! I certainly wasn't all that that happy with the speed of service, so I think I left maybe a pound or two as a tip.