Thanks PB, that totally helped! I had browsed the old threads but not entirely.
I think I have my answer:
Ventilation is for the summer (when you can have windows open), dehumidifiers are for the colder months (when damp is worse and it's too cold to have windows open).
And it WOULD be a mistake to run a dehumidifier and then open my windows or the rest of the week. Do one or the other.
Now I'm off to peek in all my corners armed with bleach.