If you need an EMT to cover Wyoming, and it isn't a paying job because what un-incorporated township could afford to pay them, who would want to take a full time degree course to volunteer?
Are you in Wyoming bookgrl? I am in Wyoming and my husband took the EMT-B courses, but I am not touching that debate with a 10 foot pole... but I can tell you first hand that the medical system here is horrible.
I came across a comment by someone today pointing out the distinction between "standard of living" (income, low tax, good retirement) and "quality of life" (comfort and convenience of our community, social cohesion, physical and social activities). The former is my starting point, looking to achieve the latter.
I very much agree and it makes my eye twitch when I hear the 'US has a higher standard of living' phrase because I think it is a misleading statement. It is a buzz term. The answer depends on your standards, and what is important to you and your family. My husband and I want the security that we wont go bankrupt if one of us or a child gets sick, that we wont be rejected from a hopital because we cant afford insurance, that a higher education is affordable and smaller issues like the labeling of GMO... so for us- the UK offers a 'higher standard of living'.
I know there are good and bad areas in both countries.
My husband grew up in Glasgow and attended private schools but moved to California and entered the 7th grade. On his first day of school in the US the class had to take a US states geography test. It was a blank map and you had to name all the states- my husband was the only one to get 100% right. After the quiz a girl brought an
open book with a map of the US and asked him to point to where Scotland was. In 7th grade.
I grew up in Iowa (which has a very high education rating) and graduated in two years of high school simply because I wasn't learning anything. I was bored and because of my age they could not provide me with further education.
My husband and I play games (because we are nerds) and compare basic knowledge and quiz each other often. I am (sort of) ashamed to say I lose almost all the time. We realize the huge gaps in (my) earlier education... basic measurements, world geography, history, sciences... and as parents we know that teaching those things and making sure our children know them are our responsibility. My lack of knowledge in those areas are not because I did not pay attention- I simply was not taught it, it was sort of covered but very vaguely.
The education here is a lot more personal here, rather than the American system of 'I'm going to give you a lecture, then you're going to turn to page 24 and do some questions'.
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I think as parents having the support of more personal education is a huge factor in decided which place is best for us. We want to help, not have to fight. My current manager is in a huge battle with the local school system regarding her 6 year old son- who's teacher says he needs to be put on medication to pay attention- but he is not behind in classwork and has no behavioral issues.
I have tried 3 times to enroll in college- two separate colleges told me that because I was single, white, had never been on any government aid and had no children that I did not qualify for much assistance and would have to take out huge loans... or I could stay single and go get pregnant. One of them went so far as to suggest that a 'minority' baby would qualify me for even more aid. (She said that with a disturbingly cheery smile too.) The other one refused to complete my application because I was not old enough to be considered independent and I 'wouldn't' give them my fathers previous tax information - somehow missing the fact that he had been dead for 4 years at that point so there was no information to give. I do not have family- so there is no financial support- and I was struggling to pay medical bills so I choose not to put myself further into debt.
I think those are very personal issues. My husband and I are do not have dreams of making tons of money and living in a big house- we just want to spend as much time with each other and our (future) family as possible. We are not 'consumers' by choice. We care more about 'value of life' than 'standard of living'.
Pegasusdba- I would think that a language barrier would be difficult to overcome for a 12 year old girl, adjusting to such a big change would be tough enough. That is just a quick observation though- I lived in Japan (Without parents or chaperons- I just wanted to live there after I graduated high school so I saved and went.) and the immersion worked very well for me and I picked up enough to get by and make friend in just a few weeks. I think it helped me make friends because they liked trying to teach me and I was curious about everything. It is still one of my favorite places... but again I think it depends entirely on an individual.