Sorry for the tardiness. I'm still getting the hang of checking three e-mail accounts, reading through several forums, etc, without spending half the day ..Too much info.
geally, AnneG, and wench--in answer to your questions. Neither my husband and I are originally from the US actually

I'm originally from Singapore and he from Greece. We met in New Jersey, when we were going to uni. Spent 10 years in the NY/NJ area, then we moved to Oakland, California, where we've been for almost 4 years. We've been to the UK several times before, but as you know, holidays can be such a different experience from living in a place. The move is quite unexpected; I never thought that we would be leaving the US after having spent 14 years here and getting the Green Card and all that. So it's starting all over again in a new country, especially when you've tried really hard to adapt to a previous country.
Sorry for the mouthful...