I've never heard any horror stories about the Sacre-Coeur and I've been 5 times. Matter of fact, I'll be staying in Montmartre for the next seven days!
Advice: if you can get there for the first Sunday of the month hit all the museums and monuments you can, they're completely free entry. If there is anything you absolutely HAVE to see and/or do, do it first otherwise you'll get sidetracked by everything else!
One of the best books I've ever gotten, and STILL use each time I go is the Knopf Mapguides Paris, ISBN 0307263886 (yes, I have it at hand haha!) The pages list interesting sites and flip out so that you get a rather detailed map of the area. It's compact and easy to tote.
As far as things to do, check out the Rue Cler, which is a pedestrian street near the Eiffel Tower. It's one of those rare Parisian streets that has every type of shop you could imagine. Also great is the Rue Mouffetard near the Mosque de Paris, which is also a fascinating piece of architecture. Best of all, each of those are free.
Have a great trip!