Hi Sarah,
The thing that annoys me ISN'T that they denied the application - it's that they were asked BEFORE my wife and I went back to the US to get the LTR and they said it would not be a problem. Not only did I ask, but my lawyers asked too. Only after we got back and applied did they reject it thus wasting our time and money. There are no written requirements ANYWHERE that state this arbitrary period, and I even asked for opinions on this forum before doing it, and everyone agreed this was a viable option.
Also, in no way or form did I EVER say we went into this "knowing" that we were going back to the US, and we were NOT playing the system. We came here with the intention to settle in the UK, but then subsequent to that a position with my company came up in California, and I was offered it. At that point we started to look into the process. To me it was simply an option that was available in my home country, and I wanted to use it (and as far as I knew, it was a viable one). Of course I did not want to be seperated from my partner and frankly I dont see what right the US Immigration Authorities have to deny one of their own citizens a basic human right. She is 100% dependent on me so how on Earth is she supposed to wait around in the US for months? Do they expect us to keep up two households for the simple reason that they dont think she's a "proper" resident here? What do the United States DHS care if my wife has paid UK taxes, contributed to UK society and experienced UK culture? Besides, since she does not work, I would still be only one paying UK taxes, and believe me, I pay thousands...
Most people agree that the U.S. Immigration system is unnecessarily long winded, complicated, mis-informed, and expensive. I'm sorry if I have offended you (from your harsh words) by trying to, in your eyes, circumvent a "privilege" that you think I do not deserve... However, I dont think that allowing such an application would open the floodgates for thousands of people applying here. Getting an LTR is not that easy, and it'd only be open to US Citizens married to British Citizens who can support them in the UK and have a physical permanent residence. No-one else. Also, the Consulate has been known to process I-130's for people that don't even have an LTR! Where's the fairness there...?
My biggest problem with the US Consulate is that they are not consistant. Why not put on their site "US Citizens that have resided in the UK for less than 1 year should not apply unless exceptional circumstances can be proven"? That would have saved a lot of problems!
Thanks,
S.