I don't know what you mean by "walking the walls"? Do tell!

York Minster a waste of good money???

Oh my. I'm not a huge fan of churches, but I thought it was one of the most beautiful and interesting places I've ever been, and I've been there 4-5 times already. (Although I chickened out 2/3 the way up the tower due to claustrophobia, but I tried!)
I've been reading some negative reviews about the Wheel, so I think we'll skip that. Seems it's rather pricey and the views aren't that great, from what I've read.
Since it is getting such rave reviews, I think the gals will have to go to the Railway Museum as well, as we are all kinda geeky like that. I didn't realize it was so big. They only have one day to spend in York, so I need to plan this well. We'll have about 8-10 hours of actual visiting time for the whole city

They don't really drink, so I think we'll skip the pubs, but yes, The Shambles is definitely on the list to do.
Is the Haunted mansion near the Viking museum? I'm trying to picture where it is in my head.