I just have to say this, my mother came into the delivery room when my first was born and she asked thr midwife for a mirror and I watched my son being born. However, I still didn't want her there with my second. My son wasn't able o breastfeed either and even though I was trying, my mother made me feel awful about the whole thing. She even told me that he didn't like the smell of my nipples. I have lovely fragrant nipples as demonstrated by my daughters love for the booby for two years.
Its a personal choice, I have a very thick skin that only my mother can get through, and she wasn't thrilled that I didnt want her there for my second birth, but tough titties mother! Lol. We have a very good relationship, but we do annoy each other. My parents are coming over next week for Thanksgiving. We are all excited...