Valid point and appreciate the reply and we will need to look into the school situation. However we do live very, very rurally now on a 2 acre property and enjoy the lifestyle of growing our own veggies and the outdoorsy life, so it would be hard and unpleasant for us to live in a very urban setting for long.
One good thing about the UK is that you don't have to go very far to get between the countryside and the cities.
My hometown is in the 'countryside' - there are about 15,000 people in the town, but I only have to walk for 10 minutes from my parents' house and I'm in the middle of the countryside, surrounded by fields and cows and farms.
On the other hand, it's only a 15-minute drive (8 miles) to the largest shopping mall in southwest England (which has 150 shops, multiplex cinema, bowling alley, gym, restaurants, ASDA-Walmart supercentre), and it's only a 30-minute drive (15 miles) into the centre of Bristol, which has almost half a million people. Plus, there are 6 international airports within a 3-hour drive, and it's only 2 hours to London by car (or 90 minutes by train).
I do enjoy some spirited driving, what is the primary method of speed enforcement over there? Does a ticket effect your license and/or insurance or is it just a monetary penalty via a fine like most countries on the Continent?
It's usually speed cameras, either mounted along the side of the road, or mobile speed vans parked along the road. If you get caught speeding you will get a fine of £60 and 3 penalty points on a UK licence (not sure about a foreign licence). The points will remain valid for 3 years. If you are excessively over the speed limit, the consequences may be greater.
Once you move to the UK, you will be allowed to drive on your US licence for 12 months, but if you wish to continue driving after that, you will need to pass the UK driving tests and get a UK licence (it's best to get one before the 12 months is up). You can't exchange a US licence for a UK one, so, you will have to go through all the UK driving tests and start over as a 'new driver'.
Currently, if you get 6 points (two speeding tickets) in the first 2 years of getting a new UK licence, you will lose the licence and will have to take all the tests again to get a new licence.
After those two years, if you get 12 points (4 speeding tickets) within 3 years, you will lose your licence and be banned from driving for 6 months.