This is true. But there are a few problems with the "you chose to be here" argument.
First and foremost, that sort of stance can lead to a stratification of society, with immigrants becoming second-class people. This might not seem so bad until you think that recently here in Cardiff refugees were required to wear distinctive red wristbands. The Australian situation is worse. And history shows us extreme examples of what this sort of thing can do.
Too, these added financial requirements can have very real effects on the ability for families to unite. Some may just plain not have the extra money. Perhaps we can, like many do, just say "too bad, so sad....work harder or something".....but again this creates stratification.....another harsh line between have and have-not.
But perhaps most importantly, we as a species have embraced (and signed up to) concepts of human rights that state plainly the importance of family life. These concepts are important because in the very recent past (and still today) we see families torn apart. We aren't talking about the ephemeral.....but real people. Human rights are taking a beating lately in the press, but I posit that if we hate the concept so badly, we should withdraw our signatures. And May has spoken of just this.
I also worry about where your line of thought could end. What other "impact fees" can we cook up? Should immigrants pay more for their food? Should our driver license fee be more?
Perhaps most personal to me is that I do not like seeing people in positions of non power being taken advantage of. Refugees....families seeking to unite....there is a cowardice in it that on a personal level rankles, the applying of barriers, and not by us as individuals but by the collective, to those striving to attain. To me treating those without power with respect and fairness is a sign of the nobility of our species.
Society is already stratified. The human race seeks to add in arbitrary levels of affluence/stratification and they've been doing it for thousands of years. India and it's caste system. Feudalism in China's history and more recently in Europe. The Aztec. The Maya. The Edo period in Japan (Samurai). Egypt's Kingdoms. The Billionaires of today. Airplanes being divided into First, Business and Economy class. Do you really think it's ever going to stop? I don't, not without some huge world wide culture paradigm shift.
I completely understand that that the financial costs have a deep impact on families. I was one of those families. My husband had to ask his employer for a several thousand pound raise so we could apply. We were lucky that they said yes, or else he would have had to find another/a new job. And this coming FLR renewal, I have to pay the IHS fee. I do so, not gladly, but with an annoyed acceptance that this is what is required of me to live in this country.
We can't forget that the US has a minimum income requirement as well, it's $35k, which is $10.7k higher than the UK minimum requirement. Doing the math (or more accurately google doing the math) the UK minimum currently comes in at $24.3k. It still came in at under $30k when the pound was at $1.6=1 GBP back when I applied in 2013. The only difference is the US allows you to have a cosponsor. And I couldn't afford to bring my husband to the US without a co-sponsor. I simply didn't earn enough and I made over $14 an hour with full time employment, which was good money for where I lived. Huh, nearly made as much as much as a licensed practical nurse... go figure.
http://www.payscale.com/research/US/Location=Grand-Junction-CO/Hourly_RateYou're using a slippery slope fallacy. I'm fairly certain that there are laws in place that don't allow vendors to have varying pricing based on someone's immigration status. From a quick google search it's Consumer Protection for Unfair Trading and they went into affect in 2008. I have a feeling something similar existed prior, but I didn't look it up.
https://www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/284442/oft1008.pdfThese laws aren't just for UK citizens, they apply to anyone who makes purchases in the UK. And if you want to get technical, the prices for goods are cheaper for non-Brits because you can get your VAT back when you leave the country, if you keep your receipts and stand in line...
My line of thinking? Saying that someone isn't British because they only hold a time limited visa to live in Britain and that they don't have the same rights as British citizens? And to have the ability to live in this country we have to grin/grimace and bear it and pay the fees imposed on us by the UK government? I'm talking legal rights as defined by the country who has interpreted what the human rights act means to them. Everything the UK does is technically within the human rights act, or wouldn't the UN have said something by now? Someone should have noticed.
People without power are always the ones that suffer because they often don't have the ability to speak out and to be heard. It often takes one of the privileged groups to take notice and to champion their cause for anything to be done. And immigrants are yet to get most of the British people on our side.
And I'm sorry, I can't go so far as to say people who are immigrants by choice as being in the same boat as refugees. People with refugee status are those who have suffered greatly and their home is no longer an option for them and they have to find someplace else to live and make their lives.
You and me, we did choose to move here. We knew of the rules when we moved and we knew that those rules can and would most likely change. That's part of the reason I'm on this forum, to keep up with the changing requirements. So we just keep on moving forward, hoping that we don't get priced out of the prize. And once we're citizens we should be championing for change for those who come after us. And championing for change on a US to UK immigration forum, doesn't really make much sense, since we're all on the same side...