Hi,
Not sure I understand the question, but here goes. Living on an island you tend to be surrounded with like-minded individuals. Not always, but usually. They are there because of the lifestyle. Laid back, low stress and on a first name basis. Let me give you an example.
Recently when we visited Alderney, I brought my drone so I could take some video of the shorelines. Because there was an airport nearby, I wanted to check with the local air traffic controller for any rule, restrictions, etc. So I went to the front desk clerk of the hotel to ask how to get ahold of the ATC center (not expecting a she'd have any idea what I was talking about). To my utter surprise she said, "Oh, that's Al, hold on I'll ring him up for you."
It's just nice when everyone talks to each other. The only thing I can tell you is go to an island, any island, and plug yourself in. It beats the hell out of the city and now, thanks to Amazon, I can get the stuff I need without a big production. Gotta love Amazon prime!
Hope this helps ... Ed