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Not to mention I cant see what this specifically has to do with settlement compared to the others?
For US applications, settlement visas are processed in Sheffield, while all other visas are processed in New York City. Regular priority processing for settlement visas is £551, compared with only £184 for all other visas.
So, the other Premium Services (Gold, Silver, Bronze) are ONLY for applications that are processed in New York and NOT for settlement visas... however they've now introduced a Gold service for the settlement visas as well.
Engaged to an American citizen (I'm a British citizen) and plan on her moving here to the UK and getting married and settling here. We are about to apply for the visa (not that the UKVI have made it simple to see which one we needed) and we want to speed up the visa application so I wanted to use the VFS services but from this thread it seems we should not use the gold settlement one.
My question is, which one should we use? Gold or silver premium?
You cannot use Silver Premium because it cannot be purchased for settlement visas.
So, your only option other than Gold Settlement Premium Service is the Settlement Priority Service for £551... you purchase it, print the receipt and include it in your package, writing SETTLEMENT PRIORITY SERVICE in large letters on the outside of the package, and then after you have attended biometrics, you mail it to Sheffield yourself.
See:
https://www.vfsglobal.co.uk/usa/user_pay_services.html#Settlement-priority-visa-serviceGold seems to suggest it's a next day processing and silver is top of the pile? Now are they top of the pile/processing with VFS or UKVI (or both) ?
For settlement visas, the Settlement Priority Service gets your application put to the front of the line (behind other priority applications) when you mail it to Sheffield.
There's no option for Silver Premium or next-day processing for a settlement visa.
I would allow somewhere between 2 weeks and 6 weeks for processing, depending on how busy they are, or 3 months for processing if you don't purchase Settlement Priority Processing.
Recently, applications submitted using Settlement Priority during December have been processed in about 4-6 weeks, while applications submitted in January have been taking about 2 weeks.