It almost feels like she thinks you'll leave? I dunno, that's one odd way to behave.
I honestly think she just didn't realise how it came off. Genuinely. Sometimes she doesn't think before speaking, if you know what I mean. She's absolutely lovely. Doesn't mean any harm. But CAN cause harm, even if she doesn't mean it, you know?
There could be some truth to your remark above. My husband was with a girl for about 8 years, they were engaged, venue selected, date set. And she walked.
Let's talk about MIL's behavior around that. My husband was DEVASTATED. Of course. He thought he had found his wife. She walked out. Left him in bits (we've all been there and can related).
His MOM had a hard time with the breakup and met up with his ex to get closure. FOR HER. Don't get me wrong, I know that breakups effect everyone. But when my ex-husband walked out on me, my parents were hurt, confused, disappointed, etc. My mom would have LOVED to have had him alone in a room - but to kill him. Not to want to still have a relationship with him.
Color me jaded, but if (when) my son's heart is ripped out of his chest and stomped on, I'm going to surround my son with love. Not the woman. Doesn't mean I won't have to grieve love lost with my DIL, but my son will be my #1.
So yeah, she could be afraid that I won't always be around. But we are MARRIED. With CHILDREN. I'll always be around. lol!