Has anyone else been left feeling worthless and unacceptable after doing dealings with the immigration system?
I'm currently on Tier 2 (General) and I want to switch employers, but this will probably never happen thanks to the resident labour market test.
I feel worthless, undesirable and like I am taking up valuable resources and space that I don't deserve. I've even wondered if the USA would welcome me if they were not stuck with me due to the circumstances with my birth and the laws concerning birth-based citizenship.
This process has made me feel like I am not good enough. Furthermore, that it is something inherently about me that makes me not good enough, not just a lack of training or capital etc. As there are many other comparable immigrants from Europe that don't have any problem coming into the country. I feel like the USA on my passport is a big scarlet letter that has been branded into my being.
If I am genuinely such a detriment to society and other people that come into the country either as babies or as Europeans are so much more worthwhile, then why am I wasting everyone's time and resources? Furthermore, why aren't people who are born in a country held to the same standard as immigrants? If you aren't up to snuff, then why are they tolerating their citizen's existence and their general mediocracy and why not mine?
The world is overpopulated and I understand that we live in a culture of excellence but in that case, some of us have to go, and maybe I'm one of them. I know I do add some sort of emotional value to a select few individuals lives but I'm not sure that that balances out the immense amount of resources it takes just to keep me alive and sheltered etc. I am also taking someone's job away from them. I just basically feel like a burden to the entire world, and if it's true then there is no LOGICAL reason why I should continue to live, although there are a fair few EMOTIONAL reasons why I would want to. But if it is for the greater good, then maybe that's what is best. I don't really want to die, but if I'm doing more harm than good, then it only makes sense. It's like putting down a race horse with a broken leg.
Does anyone else have any experience with this? I feel like I've suffered a great deal mentally under the legislation, but I don't know what I can do about it. Any advice?