It's that bad, huh
I think I know what you mean about control. I've heard your kid will be assigned a school anywhere in the area if there isn't room in the nearest school, is that right? So even if you live in a somewhat nicer neighborhood your kid might not necessarily go there for school.
Sorry to "derail" the topic. I know we're talking about trains now.
Having been a student teacher in the public schools in the USA, I used to run into the problem of parents either not caring at all what their darlings did while in school (or if they did anything at all) or parents who would get
so up in your face about how their special snowflake needed special treatment (and the other 29 kids were supposed to wait while you managed that?). So between the static from parents and the kids who were just dumped into the classroom and promoted every year regardless of how well they did or didn't do, and having to buy pencils and supplies for them because the state didn't fund us well enough.... I'm left a bit jaded.
(The burnout rate of new teachers in the States was 50% in the first three years, back then. I think it's worse now.)
And yes, I believe you are correct. You can live down the street from a given state school, but if it's full, your kiddo goes elsewhere.
I think I would always prefer that my child be in a school that I selected for them, based on their interests and personality. If I had all the money in the world, and the Daughter was very young again, I'd have her in a Montessori or maybe a Waldorf school for her early years, then in one of those private schools that allow the students to progress at their own rate (to some extent) and choose from a wide variety of non-core courses in addition to the basics of reading, writing, and arithmatic - but who would be monitored so that she did not fall below a given standard of achievement over time. And where she would learn at least two other foreign languages. The added advantage of being able to pay to have close supervision (aka small class sizes) is that the only other kids in those schools are there for pretty much the same reasons. [Aside from the people who put their kids in posh schools just because they are upholding their social status, that is.] So, she'd be socializing with other children whose families put a similar emphasis on education that I would do.
Technically I could home school her - I have the degree in education, plus a few others. But I think that a good part of a child's education is learning how to get along with others their age and to navigate socially. That is kind of limited in a home-schooling situation, unless you get lucky and have a support network of other home-schooled kids around.
Anyway, my two cents worth, for what that is really worth....