Yeah, so that set of buildings was due to be refurbished anyway, so it wasn't just for the H&M family. If it hadn't been them moving in, some other royal would have.
"Sir Michael Stevens, Keeper of the Privy Purse, who is responsible for the monarchy's accounts, said of Frogmore Cottage: "The property had not been the subject of work for some years and had already been earmarked for renovation in line with our responsibility to maintain the condition of the occupied royal palaces estate. "The Sovereign Grant covered the work undertaken to turn the building into the official residence and home of the Duke and Duchess of Sussex and their new family. "The building was returned to a single residence and outdated infrastructure was replaced to guarantee the long-term future of the property. "Substantially all fixtures and fittings were paid for by their Royal Highnesses," he added."Meghan is worth, supposedly, $5 million on her own. Harry is supposedly worth $40 million, inherited from Diana's trust fund for him. So they're not exactly paupers if they walk away from the circus.
The press is, unsurprisingly, going after Meghan. The amount of subtle racism in this country is truly staggering. I hadn't believed it, though I'd been warned about it, before people & event watching here for the last few years. At least in the States it's "in your face" racism when it's there. (Looking at the faces of some of the royals during the wedding was pretty telling. And the way Meghan has been treated so far by the press is just...sad.)
So, good for Meghan and Harry, and I hope they go somewhere with kind people and good fresh air for that child to grow up amongst. If they want to resign, it's certainly their right to do so.