Speaking of this, every time my son and I have come back from the states, I've been asked different, SURPRISING, questions while going through passport control. My son, who is 2 years old, and was born here in England, and we both have I.L.R. stamped on both our passports. Yet the people seeing us through, want to question us!! I had thought, perhaps ignorantly, that once we had I.L.R. , we would be ok coming and going! Yet they keep asking weird questions!! What does your husband do. Is he still doing the same job since you came here. What qualified you for the I.L.R. My husband said, this last time, to just tell them, "It's YOUR home office!!!! You tell me!!!" Honestly, I dunno what they want from me! I am legal here dammit!!!! Why the goofy questions?? Or do I just bring out the smart-aleckyness in people?