Well. . . Ouch. . . .

Wonderboy emailed me today to tell me that the distance and time apart is just too painful. . .

Which would be fine if it wasn't OUT OF THE BLUE!  :\\\'(

Seriously- I felt I had no warning. . . I feel like I've been suckerpunched in the gut. . . 

*Sigh*

Just needed to vent.

Maybe it's a good thing? Maybe he wants to get married?

Don't automatically go to the bad thoughts...ask him first!

*hugs*

Maybe it's a good thing? Maybe he wants to get married?

Don't automatically go to the bad thoughts...ask him first!

*hugs*

LOL- THanks- but good emails dont have a subject line of "("

((((hugs))))

Same thing happened to me earlier this year, so I understand your pain and confusion, and how that suckerpunch can feel.

Is your guy under some sort of unusual stress or anything?  Or made any other major life/career decisions lately?  Something else may be freaking him out...if you two are still communicating, perhaps you can find out what's going on.  But give it some time, get over this initial shock.

Wishing you strength...

I'm really sorry that this happened to you.  I know I've had a similar experience where someone just felt it was all too much being apart before.  Wishing you lots of strength!  Remember to take care of you!  I'll hope it's just a momentary glitch for you.   

I'm so sorry!
 

I'm just wondering why he would email that to you and not have an actual conversation about it?  I'd have to ask the same questions that MissIndigo did - Is he under a huge amount of stress or pressure right now?  I also agree that he may be freaked about something else and it was a momentary moment of insanity!

Talk to him and find out.  I know I don't have to say it, but email doesn't convey emotions very well.

I'm hoping for the best for you!

He emailed becasue that's the only means of communication, recently, which is part of the trouble, I'm sure. 

He HAS been going through a lot. . . and I'm sure that factors into it. . . 

We haven't been together long AT ALL, and if this is the inevitable, then fine, and I understand that the distance is difficult and may simply be too much.  Although I think he's worth the extra effort and drama, I can't expect him to take that on.

But- it was still very sudden. . . I'm sure over the next few days I'll get some answers- whether they're the ones I want is less certian. . . 

Thanks for listening, ladies- you're a great group. 

Hugs to you, I hope you are able to communicate with him soon to get your questions answered. Nothing worse than not knowing. 


 

Sorry to hear that, I hope you get some answers soon.  I've been going through a questionable last couple of months with my guy and I know it's hard not really knowing what's going on.  I've felt the same way, that he's "worth the extra effort and drama" and I know he's being going through a lot of stresses, but I also believe you shouldn't push someone away during the hard times.  I hope things work out for you, whatever happens. 

I know how that feels - when I went to see my boy in January, he gave me that same line & I felt like I had been punched in the gut.  Luckily, we talked through it & agreed to stay together in the end.

LOL- THanks- but good emails dont have a subject line of "("

oh im sorry! ...I hope you get to talk to him more about it soon.

Well- after a handful of "WHAT?!?!? And you decided this WHEN?!?" emails yesterday, I've been informed that the situation is under review. . .   

So- Either way- it will eventually be fine. . . JEEZ! But the no warning bit rather sucked.

Thanks for all the well wishes, ladies, you are all awesome. 

"Under review?"  <coughs uncontrollably, sputtering CRAP RESPONSE>  I hope he is respectful of you and will eventually tell you what led him to the decision.  Best of luck!

"under review"?  This is a relationship with a person that has real feelings and emotions... not a hunt for a job

anyway, like Kristina said I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope he is respectful of you and will tell you what led him to this so you don't have to wait.

"under review"?  This is a relationship with a person that has real feelings and emotions... not a hunt for a job

anyway, like Kristina said I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope he is respectful of you and will tell you what led him to this so you don't have to wait.

Exactly what I would say!  And which ever way it goes, make sure you are comfortable with it, and how you being treated!  Best of luck anyway!  *hugs*