Might explain the battle with depression I've had over the last 2yrs since moving here. 
That's really too bad. If I were you, I'd go for some counselling here, on my own.
It's really important to love oneself enough to be happy in one's own skin, with who you are, and that's so hard when someone makes you feel doubts about that or niggles over stuff that's not really that important in the grand scheme of things.
Especially when it comes to having kids! Because they're not ourselves, of course, and it's so important to have two parents who show them unconditional support of who they are - sleep patterns and all.
