We had a discussion about this last night, in which I told dh other husbands can actually do the shopping and eat veg. He's probably reading this thread as we speak, so everyone wave to him!

I do know he's stressed about switching jobs, so more and more has slipped, but his ignoring bit of the list has been consistent from even before he turned in his notice. He's excellent about picking us up treats, not so excellent about the good for you stuff. He did agree to let me proof the lists from now on if he does the shopping, but as I do most of the cooking, I'll probably do most of the shopping. So, I think now, since lunch sucked, I'll go rummage through our cupboards and open one of the bizillion chocolate biscuit packages we have. Sadly, we have no beer. Otherwise, I'd have him drink one each night, so he'd get some sleep (see my IA for further details).