Hello all and thank you for the prompt responses!!

The thing that I noticed a lot was that everyone seems to join their spouse at one of the locations here (NY the most it seems) to apply there. However, my husband works for the RAC and all of the time off that they are alloted he took while I was there in June/July time.
As I live in Florida, none of the locations are really a hope skip and a jump away. It would be a project to get out to any location and in the end I would be alone as hubby wouldn't be able to join me.
He and I have been working day and night to figure out all of the things that we need to do to get me back over there. I have been on the phone to people in the NY Consular office and he has called places in England staying on the phone for almost three hours with some places.
It feels as though we are the only ones who are trying to do it this way - I would just like some human guidance as all of the websites that I read fall short of all the things that I really want to know.
I appreciate all of your responses though and did find the website with Lola's experience interesting it's just rather unfortunate that it can not be that easy for he and I. It will have to be done by the post since the RAC won't allow him anymore time off and he has an upcoming course with the TA Para Regiment that he is in that can not be missed either.
Any other ideas or suggestions? Or anyone who's been in this sort of situation? We really need as much help as possible! Even if it's just responses that will ease our minds a bit. Our biggest fear is not being prepared for it and them denying us and all of that money being wasted.
What sort of things are vital to send? What are some questions that they ask? Again, any help is greatly appreciated by both my husband and myself!! Tc!!!
x x x - Missy
