Hello
Guest

Sponsored Links


Topic: Tacky Wedding Vent  (Read 15900 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #120 on: July 27, 2011, 09:19:12 PM »
Are you sure it's not "bring sleeping bags, because there's not that much bed linen"?

I've done that in hostels before :)


  • *
  • Posts: 6665

    • York Interweb
  • Liked: 8
  • Joined: Sep 2004
  • Location: York
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #121 on: July 27, 2011, 09:52:10 PM »
Are you sure the thing on Sunday requires a fancy dress? I can see them expecting that for the wedding, but if the reception is the next day I'm not so sure. It's all so confusing....



I was referring to the wedding that is taking place on Saturday at the campsite. That's the one where they have suggested that people dress elegantly.

There is  a registry wedding - that they are saying isn't really a wedding - on Thursday. I don't have a problem with wearing a nice dress for that.

Sunday they are just having a barbecue and playing games and stuff. They have only asked that people get dressed up for the Saturday wedding.



  • *
  • *
  • Posts: 8486

  • Liked: 3
  • Joined: Mar 2006
  • Location: Baltimore
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #122 on: July 27, 2011, 09:55:06 PM »
Okay, whew!


  • *
  • Posts: 6665

    • York Interweb
  • Liked: 8
  • Joined: Sep 2004
  • Location: York
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #123 on: July 27, 2011, 09:58:07 PM »
Are you sure it's not "bring sleeping bags, because there's not that much bed linen"?

I've done that in hostels before :)


You're right. I checked the post again and it said "Bring a sleeping bag or bedding".

My mistake.

I am very curious about what the bride and groom will be wearing because they keep saying that they are dressing up and they want others to dress up, too. I've only ever associated with them in casual situations, and they are very laid back people.  I wonder what their idea of "dressing up" is.
« Last Edit: July 27, 2011, 10:03:23 PM by sweetpeach »


  • *
  • Posts: 1410

    • Jennifer Knits
  • Liked: 1
  • Joined: Jul 2010
  • Location: Inverness
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #124 on: July 28, 2011, 12:34:20 PM »
You're right. I checked the post again and it said "Bring a sleeping bag or bedding".

My mistake.

I am very curious about what the bride and groom will be wearing because they keep saying that they are dressing up and they want others to dress up, too. I've only ever associated with them in casual situations, and they are very laid back people.  I wonder what their idea of "dressing up" is.

You could ask? Or make your DH ask? do you know anyone else who will be at the wedding? You could ask them what they're wearing. What is your DH wearing?


  • *
  • Posts: 6665

    • York Interweb
  • Liked: 8
  • Joined: Sep 2004
  • Location: York
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #125 on: July 28, 2011, 10:09:34 PM »
I think the bride would just say she's dressing elegantly. I don't feel close enough to any of the women who are going to ask. DH will probably pick something to wear at the last minute.


  • *
  • Posts: 6678

  • On an Irish adventure, on the West coast of Clare!
  • Liked: 1
  • Joined: Apr 2007
  • Location: Leeds
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #126 on: July 29, 2011, 08:18:58 AM »
DH will probably pick something to wear at the last minute.
That is exactly what my hubby would do.
Met husband-to-be in Ireland July 2006
Married October 2007
Became a British citizen 21 July 2011
Separated from husband August 2014
Off on an Irish adventure October 2014


  • *
  • Posts: 6665

    • York Interweb
  • Liked: 8
  • Joined: Sep 2004
  • Location: York
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #127 on: August 11, 2011, 05:29:48 PM »
Just an update.

Have come back from the registry wedding. It was a normal registry wedding. I don't know why they were saying it wasn't a "real" wedding. There were about 50 guests (enough to fill up the room). DH and I had only 10-15 people at our wedding. The bride's father even "gave her away".

Everyone was dressed the way you would at a typical daytime wedding. The bride wore a nice, simple dress with a jacket.

It was very lovely and romantic, like a wedding is supposed to be.


After, we went to a pub, then to a nice restaurant for lunch, then some people went to another pub but DH and I left.

It was a wedding. A nice, normal, typical registry wedding with drinks and a nice meal afterwards.

Personally, while I think it's fine to go camping for a weekend, I don't think they need to have another wedding. 


  • *
  • Posts: 2681

  • Mummy of Jean Kathleen and Thomas Patrick
  • Liked: 1
  • Joined: Sep 2004
  • Location: Coventry, West Midlands
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #128 on: August 17, 2011, 03:02:45 PM »
keep us posted, if that's not what the bride considers real I can't wait to hear what constitutes a real wedding
Maroon Passport Club!


  • *
  • Posts: 218

  • Liked: 0
  • Joined: May 2011
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #129 on: August 17, 2011, 09:11:48 PM »
::patiently waits for Sweetpeach to return from her week holiday to report::

I really hope you had a good time.  And Happy Birthday for last Sunday! - sorry its late, we were on our honeymoon.


  • *
  • Posts: 6665

    • York Interweb
  • Liked: 8
  • Joined: Sep 2004
  • Location: York
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #130 on: August 21, 2011, 10:12:19 AM »
Update. We got to the campsite on Friday. The campsite (in the Yorkshire Dales) was a field in the middle of a sheep farm. No electric hookup or anything like that.

It rained a lot of the time we were there. I did not bring warm enough clothes  and I should have brought wellies.  The only shoes I had were trainers, and flats to wear to the wedding.  The field had high grass and was soaking wet most of the time.  Everytime I stepped outside my trainers got soaked and my socks would get drenched. I think I had to change my socks around four times a day, and I ended up wearing my flats most of the time.

It was sunny for the wedding.

We bought two chairs, a table and a gazebo on the way there.  However, DH is starting an aerial photography business and brought some drones to practice and take photos of the scenery there. So DH, being DH, was out doing that and didn’t get back to our camper till 5 -10 minutes before the wedding started, and then frantically started looking through his things for something to wear to the wedding that fit him and wasn’t stained (I had been sitting in the van waiting for him in my outfit for the past half hour), so the chairs, table and gazebo stayed in the back of the van in their original boxes and were never used.

Despite the bride’s belief that there would be 30 kids that could be organized into  sports teams in the field (the weather wasn’t conducive to that anyway),  there were actually only a handful of young children. As far as I saw, two babies and three older children, two of whom were in the bridal party.

The actual wedding was outdoors on Saturday. The bride wore a beautiful dress – the kind you would wear to a “normal wedding” and the bridesmaids were all dressed in nice dresses. The groom wore a kilt. The clothing on the guests varied . Some wore typical dressy clothing that you would wear to a wedding. Some of the men wore suits with trainers. Then there were some people who were a little outlandish. The bride’s brother, for example, wore a pinstripe suit. One of our friends, who gave a speech at the wedding, wore a long 1960s hippy-type wig. The wedding was performed by a friend of ours who wore a light-coloured suit with sandals.

The wedding ceremony itself was OK and involved a lot of speeches.


There was a lot of food which was cooked/catered by friends/family. There were canapes after the wedding and a buffet style dinner.

We stayed on the Sunday and left on the Monday morning. Most of the people had left on the  Sunday, presumably because they had to be at work on Monday.

DH and I spent the rest of the week staying at different campsites (typical campsites with access to water and electricity and places to dump your toilet waste), at Castle Douglas, Inverness and then at Whitley Bay.
« Last Edit: August 21, 2011, 10:16:50 AM by sweetpeach »


  • *
  • Posts: 1410

    • Jennifer Knits
  • Liked: 1
  • Joined: Jul 2010
  • Location: Inverness
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #131 on: August 23, 2011, 06:03:03 PM »
Well, that sounds like it wasn't too bad. At least no one came dressed as Hitler.


  • *
  • Posts: 6665

    • York Interweb
  • Liked: 8
  • Joined: Sep 2004
  • Location: York
Re: Tacky Wedding Vent
« Reply #132 on: August 23, 2011, 08:59:45 PM »
At least no one came dressed as Hitler.

 ;D


Sponsored Links





 

coloured_drab