I use Soap and Glory lotion or cocoa butter, both of which come in pretty large containers at Boots. Superdrug would have something too. My husband uses E45, which can be found everywhere I think. And there's always the internet when you can't find what you need, I use a specific website for all my natural hair care needs. Um, I don't really use toothpicks or expect them to be in restaurants, to be honest. And paper towels can be found in some places, depends where you go, I guess. I prefer Dyson airblade hand dryers, they make me feel like I'm in the future.