well I didnt really know where to post this because its about depression but at the same time, my depression will not just pass - however it seemed the simplest option. lol. anyways.
I've been back from the UK for two weeks, almost three and my depression hasnt 'passed' but only has become worse. it has gotten so bad that I have picked three fights with my brit bf, saying "you dont care" "you dont talk to me" and so on and so forth - all of which is not true. My bf is a quiet guy and I know this, but when I am depressed, I say some stupid stuff. But, when I got home at first, I talked to him yet I cried, because I missed him...
the 2nd week, it got to the point that I was arguing with him and telling him that we needed to not talk because I couldn't talk to him w/o crying, yet if I didnt talk to him it hurt just as worse.
It seems that there is no solution. It got to the point that this past Sunday I told him that if he didnt talk to me and if he didnt make decisions that it was over because I was sick of it :\\\'(- again, I totally confused him because I was talking crap
- poor guy, I'm surprised he puts up with it. So I saw a psychiatrist Wednesday morning (a little background info here - i've been in out and of seeing Psych's for 5 years now and have been on several meds, but stopped taking the Prozac the last psych gave me because it wasnt working right before I left for England) ...and I was diagnosed as having major depression - however, the Psych I saw today told me that I am a rapid-cycler (a form of Bipolar Disorder) and says that I am more on the depressive side than the mania side, as I rarely have manias. And it all made sense. He put me on Lamictal - a mood stabilizer which is used to treat patients with seizures and those with Bipolar Disorder.. however the Psych didnt tell me I had it specifically. So in two weeks when I see him again, I will ask him what his diagnoses is - today, I was just happy to get help and for someone to FINALLY understand. But my mother was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder about 4 years ago, so I am at higher risk to have it myself. I guess there really is no point to this post, but I guess I really wanted to say that depression is normal, but at the rate I was going, I could have totally wrecked our relationship, all because I'd seen Psychs in the past who thought one thing and changed their minds, and gave me meds that weren't working - and really, its a trial and error thing with meds, but...hopefully it will all get figurd out and I will be stable - and able to maintain the relationship I have with a guy who REALLY loves me.