Hi , everything is ok. We’ve had a bit of a setback since I got here.. DH had to quit work for medical reasons and so we are getting a very small benefit weekly and he’s applied for PIP for medical and actually has his assessment Saturday for this. If he gets the full amount we will be able to live pretty well and at least be able to help pay the rent, we are living still with his nephew, who graciously paying the bills for now. I’ve applied for a few jobs but from others stories, it’s not as easy to get a job as back home... I still haven’t tried driving yet but DH having a trip to the ER via ambulance showed me I need to, I was so worried about what I’d do if he had to stay in hospital, but it just ended up being something simple. We aren’t as young as some of the others here, we are both 55 and so thinking where we want to spend our life is a bit more pressing than knowing we have years of work ahead. DH is still writing and has a book sent to publishers but nothing has been picked up for publish yet, so working is all on me for now, well once I find a job. But going home will have its own issues like buying a car, my friend will let us rent her house anytime now or next year. I admit I had a terrible time at first , in the verge of tears all the time and terrible anxiety at night but that’s easing up. I miss my daughter beyond belief but she is grown and in reality can come visit us just as one day we may can go visit home. Ughh just so all over the place as to what to do right now. Sorry for the novel. It’s like the others probably, I’m happy and sad at the same time.
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Awww, big big hugs. It's a huge adjustment. It's not even the same language, really.
For driving, don't be afraid to give it a go. If your husband has a car, try to find an industrial estate at the weekend. Those are good places to try out driving for the first time. And when you are ready to find a good instructor who will help you gain your confidence.
Jobs, yeah, it's tough. And if you aren't able to drive, it adds that extra layer of difficulty. I'm always grateful that I came here for work, and happened to meet my husband.
I hope the PIP review goes well. Make sure that he is honest and says that he is married but that you are NOT allowed public funds, so his claim will be awarded as if he was single. You don't want to jeopardise your immigration status. Sometimes they are very generous and insist you can have it, when you are not able to.
Keep us posted. No need to be a stranger.