Going to the US to visit and: getting a tan, sitting by my sister's pool drinking margaritas made in her marg machine whilst my teen nieces entertain the kids in the pool (they are certified lifeguards and swimming instructors), going out to eat on my own with DH and sis/BIL whilst the teens and Mom and Dad look after the kids (AND in the morning, too, so get to go wild!), shopping in the US with my mom and sister, going to the movies with my mom and having coffee afterwards, playing cards with my mom, playing Scrabble with my dad, reading a book in peace whilst the kids play their cousins on the Wii and my sister looks after teh baby, getting a manicure and pedicure, going to a Bikram yoga class.