Yeah, a lot of drs here are limiting to one scan, as well, unless completely necessary.
Well, I've had all my kids here in the US, but I have had experience w/drs and w/midwives. Loved the midwife who delivered my youngest. But I did have like the area's best/nicest/most popular doctor for the first one, so I haven't really had a bad experience.
I guess my problem here is that since I have kids and am a single mom, health insurance - even through employers - has always cost me too much to even think about. Sure, I'd be covered - but my kids would be left out in the cold. Health insurance doesn't do much good if there's not enough money left over to feed them, eh?
Too poor to afford it on my own - too "rich" to qualify for any kind of subsidized health care for my kids. And that is the US completely-private healthcare system quandry that affects - believe it or not - approximately 90 MILLION people. And as far as vision, dental, and prescriptions are concerned - don't even think about it.
So I sit and pray that no one gets so sick a little ibuprofen or cough syrup can't take care of it...
As far as having any more babies...that is not even a topic of discussion right now! But I'm sure that when and if the time comes, I'll just stay right there in the UK to have them. Just the fact that someone comes to the house for the post-natal checkups instead of having to drag a poor 6-week-old baby out to an office filled w/sick toddlers is enough to sway me!!