Hello
Guest

Sponsored Links


« previous next »
Pages: 1 [2] 3 4 ... 8   

Topic: In a crisis  (Read 12832 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Re: In a crisis
« Reply #15 on: December 11, 2008, 07:58:35 AM »
I soo feel for you. Like yourself I too had to make an escape from someone I thought I knew, almost 7 years I lived with him and as each year that went by it just slowly got worse and worse and I didn't realize it until one day all I could do was think about stepping in front of a BART train on my way to work.

Thankfully I had wonderful supportive family and my best friend who helped me out. Like yourself, I just came home from work one day he happened to be out of the house, packed all my stuff, my parents showed up took my stuff and my cat and I jumped on a plane to England. That was 18 months ago.

Since then I fell in love with my best friend, got married, moved permanently to England, had our daughter and here I am.

Best of luck to you tonight, I'll pray for you always.
Logged

  • *
  • Posts: 5416

  • Liked: 0
  • Joined: Apr 2007
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #16 on: December 11, 2008, 08:47:39 AM »
I hope it all works out and wish you happiness and safety. If you need to find resources to help you, maybe here is a start:

http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/CrimeJusticeAndTheLaw/VictimsOfCrime/DG_4003136
Logged

  • *
  • *
  • *
  • Posts: 16321

  • Also known as PB&J ;-)
  • Liked: 849
  • Joined: Sep 2007
  • Location: :-D
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #17 on: December 11, 2008, 08:54:16 AM »
Oh my goodness. Please be safe.  Hugs!!!
Logged
I've never gotten food on my underpants!
Work permit (2007) to British Citizen (2014)
You're stuck with me!

  • *
  • Posts: 3012

  • I miss you so much. My heart is forever broken.
  • Liked: 0
  • Joined: Jan 2006
  • Location: La Mesa, Ca
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #18 on: December 11, 2008, 08:54:30 AM »
I hate to be a broken record but PLEASE be careful!

I wish you the best and please let us know how it all turns out.  My thoughts are def with you as you take on this enormous task. *hugs*
Logged

Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine.

  • Jewlz
  • is in the house because....
  • *
  • Posts: 8647

  • International Woman of Mystery
  • Liked: 3
  • Joined: Jun 2008
  • Location: Newcastle Upon Tyne
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #19 on: December 11, 2008, 01:47:34 PM »
Just read this post.... sorry you are going through such a hard time.  How devastating that someone you knew so well turned out to be such a psycho.  What a nightmare!  I will be thinking of you and hoping you make it to your friends house okay and are able to get something sorted for the long term.  Definitely let us know when you arrive safely!
Logged

  • *
  • Posts: 280

  • Liked: 0
  • Joined: May 2008
  • Location: Weston Super Mare
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #20 on: December 11, 2008, 08:54:50 PM »
Wow!  What a terrible situation to be in!  I am so sorry that this has happened to you.  No one deserves to be put through this, yet it happens so often!  Happy thoughts are coming your way.  I really do hope things have gone well today.  Hopefully tonight you can get a good night's sleep.
Logged

  • *
  • Posts: 4024

  • Liked: 0
  • Joined: Nov 2009
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #21 on: December 11, 2008, 09:16:29 PM »
I'll keep my thoughts with you.  Let us know you got out safe.

x
Logged

  • *
  • *
  • *
  • Posts: 2503

  • Liked: 6
  • Joined: Jul 2006
  • Location: Northern Ireland
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #22 on: December 11, 2008, 09:29:20 PM »
What a horrible situation.  I echo the others; please be safe and let us know you got out ok.  Take care of yourself and you are in my thoughts.
Logged
The Guide For Working Families review http://londonelegance.com/transpondia/twfg/

  • *
  • Posts: 6537

  • Liked: 0
  • Joined: Jul 2006
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #23 on: December 11, 2008, 09:32:44 PM »
Hope you are ok. 
Logged

  • *
  • Posts: 6665

    • York Interweb
  • Liked: 8
  • Joined: Sep 2004
  • Location: York
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #24 on: December 11, 2008, 09:33:58 PM »
You are very brave. Take care and let us know that you are OK.
Logged

  • *
  • Posts: 2188

  • Liked: 4
  • Joined: Mar 2006
  • Location: Abertridwr, Caerphilly, Wales
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #25 on: December 11, 2008, 09:46:15 PM »
We are all thinking of you and sending good thoughts your way.  Do let us know when you are safe.

Another piece of advice might be to go to any websites (like this one and especially your email) that you may stay permanently logged into and log out before you erase your history.  Whatever you do, keep hold of any important legal documents, and if you need contact info for any refuges or such, let us know.  Your local Women's Aid may be a good reference if you are needing support.

You'll be in my prayers tonight.
Logged

  • *
  • Posts: 4274

  • Liked: 0
  • Joined: Jul 2006
  • Location: Massachusetts
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #26 on: December 11, 2008, 09:50:14 PM »
I hope you get away safely!
Logged

  • *
  • Banned
  • Posts: 14601

  • Liked: 4
  • Joined: Sep 2005
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #27 on: December 11, 2008, 10:39:43 PM »
Just foudn this thread.  You are very brave, and I hope today has gone without a hitch.


Vicky
Logged

  • *
  • Posts: 712

  • UF College of Vet Med Class of 2010!!
  • Liked: 0
  • Joined: Oct 2007
  • Location: Durham, Co. Durham!
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #28 on: December 11, 2008, 11:20:06 PM »
I hope you are safe right now! My thoughts and prayers are with you *HUGS*!
Logged
"Treat for the treatable" - Uncle Mikey's Maxim # 1

  • *
  • Posts: 662

    • London Pet Butler
  • Liked: 0
  • Joined: Jun 2008
  • Location: London, UK
Re: In a crisis
« Reply #29 on: December 12, 2008, 01:21:37 AM »
My God, what a beast! You're so brave Midnight. Are you there? Please log in as soon as you can and let us know you're alright.

No one deserves this and it's very frightening, but I tip my hat to your courage and dignity.

Logged

Pages: 1 [2] 3 4 ... 8   
« previous next »

Sponsored Links