Ok, Mandyboo, finish the GED in NY. For sure. But, I think you know that.
Based upon my experience, and I am NOT saying it is a FACT, just based on my experience here, and knowing a lot of expats... People tend to do better, career wise, when they have a degree that COMES FROM HERE.
Now, I know people have had different experiences! But in general, from looking at the educated people I know here, people from all over the world, the UK seems to lean heavily toward UK education. This is just my personal experience!!! I know about 100 expats. Many have reported this as a problem. Many have had to take 'additional UK extension classes' here, even tho they have a degree that transfers. Some have not - it depends on the field.
Again, this is ONLY based on my experiences, and not any sort of official statistic or study.
Example: I went to Harvard, and then transferred to Smith. So, I graduated from Smith College, which is considered 'The Harvard of Women's Colleges' and most people here have never even heard of it. People who went to Oxford might know of it. But that is about it. And, they think it is a school for 16 to 18 year olds. Here, 'college' is NOT university. Here, 'college' is where you go to become a hairdresser. Here, college is where you go BEFORE you go to university, or to learn a trade. So, I have to constantly mention in my cover letters that Smith College IS a university.
And, my degree transfers here. It IS accepted here, officially. But, not socially, it seems. So, in a year and a half, no one seems to be interested in hiring me to work in my degree field. Why, when they can hire someone who went to a known UK school? Ya know?! And, it may NOT be this way with all degrees, so it is important to check if the degree from the USA in your chosen field WILL transfer here, both officially and... Socially.
Also, you will have to live here for 3 years (possible 5 years under the new rules, but I am not sure - Ksand 24, Geeta, or Historeen(sp?) would know! They are awesome and seem to know about everything!) before you get non-international student fees. So, moving here on a fiance or spouse visa will mean that you are going to pay a heck of a lot more for school if you do it before you meet that 3 year mark. Or, you will have to put off school for 3 years. So, that is something to keep in mind.
Also, in the USA, most people do not go from a GED directly into a 4 year college. They go from a GED into a 2 year college, and then do well, and transfer into a 4 year college.
I would suggest 1. Checking if the degree there will be accepted here. 2. Getting a few actual college credits under your belt in the USA, so that if you DO decide to get your degree here, you will have some university grades for them to look at when you apply to 4 year schools here. You will get into a much better school that way.
As for exchange programmes, I would totally go for that! Even if it is short. You will get a taste of what it is like to be here, make connections with a UK university, and get university credits! All in one!
Another good thing about going to school here is that the undergrad loans work differently. But, again, that would be once you are a resident... In the USA, 6 months after you graduate, job or no job, you need to start paying them back - you can defer but you will incur interest on many loans - but, here, it is income based. You pay nothing until you make a certain amount, AND, if after ten years you never make that amount, the loans are 'forgiven.' I'm not totally clear on how that works but that seems to be the gist.
Some majors have similar forgiveness programmes in the USA. Like... Teaching, I think? But, that is a masters programme. I don't know of any forgiveness programmes for undergrad. They may exist.
If you are in NY, and low income, you can go to CUNY for less money than the financial aid that is supplied, and there are a lot of scholarships! I don't know what the undergrad scholarships here are like.
I began my education in NYC, at a CUNY 2 year community college. I took out the full amount of loans available to me for the first semester. It covered my classes, my books, and my transportation, and left me a bit of spending money after that. I then applied for academic scholarships, after that first semester, and paid NOTHING from that point on. After being there for a few semesters, I applied to all of the top 4 year schools in the area, got accepted, and I got full academic scholarships to all of them. (Although I had to take out loans for my non-housing expenses, and some food related expenses, and my general living expenses - getting my hair done, travelling back to NYC for holidays, whatever. Harvard and Smith assigned way too much work for me to have a part time job during my semesters! So, I do have loans. I worked summer jobs. That helped a bit!)
There are jobs that are listed as something like 'needed careers' or something in the UK, and if you have a degree in those fields, you can get a work visa. I don't know if your chosen field is on that list. But there are several science related jobs on it. People with degrees from the USA whose field/major is on that list do very will career wise in the UK. So, they are the exception to the 'we like UK degrees' issue I seem to be coming up against here. Again, the 'we like UK degrees' is only based on my experience, and I am sure there are MANY exceptions, especially people who fall into the 'needed careers' visa list. I just don't know many of them, I guess...
All of the CUNY 2 year community colleges have exchange programmes in the UK, and they have scholarships for them! It used to be called 'The CUNY British Exchange Programme.' I did it. I did a summer semester at Oxford. It was ALL paid for by scholarships! If I remember correctly, one needed a certain GPA, a referral from a professor, an essay, and a certain number of completed credits to apply, and the credits equaled about 10 classes of 3 credits each. So, about 30 college credits. That is like... 2 full time semesters.
OK, I hope all this rambling of mine is of some help...
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L.