OK. Going to ring them on Monday and actually speak to someone, that way I can explain my situation fully and we can bounce around ideas. Going to do a 3 way call with them and the wife, just so we both know exactly what's going on and we will be on the same page. We talk all the time, but sometimes the time difference means things are happening when we can't talk, and a few hours later you don't remember to relay every single detail of things.
Her letter from employer arrived today in the mail, and it's exactly what we needed it to be. She is just waiting for 1 more bank statement that she's ordered, then she'll be ready to send everything off to me.
The task for Sunday is completing the sponsorship letter. I've seen a guideline of what this letter needs to include....
-how my wife is eligible to sponsor me (which would be her UK citizenship)
-how we meet the financial requirement (combo of her employment/savings and my 401k)
-accommodation details (her 2 bedroom flat, and we have the letter from landlord stating it's a 2 bedroom flat and granting me permission to live there)
-a 1 paragraph history of our relationship (where/how we met, if we've visited each other, when we got engaged & married, and why we're choosing to setting in the UK rather than the US)
Is there anything that we should add to this? And is "To Whom It May Concern" the appropriate way to 'address' it?
And my mother-in-law is going to type out the letter confirming that the wedding gift she gave us was, in fact, a gift not to be repaid. She'll include the date the gift was given, the amount, and....anything else? I assume this will be a very short thing, no more than a few sentences? And "To Whom It May Concern" with this, as well?