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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8940 on: October 09, 2018, 03:54:45 PM »
Umm, so writing letters/emailing is out of the question? It's entirely more private.

No, but people don't respond to emails. They really don't.  Letters. HA!
We have private groups setup for so many things which are extremely useful. I was an early user of Facebook and MySpace before that.  Using the internet in general makes us open to anything regarding privacy. Shrug? I'm a Xennial so all normal mode of operation for me.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8941 on: October 09, 2018, 03:57:41 PM »
No, but people don't respond to emails. They really don't.  Letters. HA!
We have private groups setup for so many things which are extremely useful. I was an early user of Facebook and MySpace before that.  Using the internet in general makes us open to anything regarding privacy. Shrug? I'm a Xennial so all normal mode of operation for me.

Yup, I agree with this.

Honestly, my dance partner from when I was 9 years old until I was 16 has stopped all treatment for her cancer.  If not for Facebook, I wouldn't have a clue.  It's the easiest way for her to update everyone ONE TIME.  Brilliant platform for tough times. 

We message personally.  But for the big things, she just has to say stuff one time.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8942 on: October 09, 2018, 04:00:00 PM »
Sorry to hear about your friend KFDancer.  Lots of love <3
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8943 on: October 09, 2018, 04:06:11 PM »
Sorry to hear about your friend KFDancer.  Lots of love <3

It sucks so bad.  She went on a big trip in January to celebrate her 40th.  Discovered the lump in her neck in Feb.  Needle biopsy said it was benign but doctor recommended removing it due to location with facial nerves.  Biopsy showed crazy rare aggressive cancer - not diagnosed until April as the surgery wasn't urgent.  Her body is riddled with cancer.  She did 3 months of treatment and the pet scan showed more cancer than when she started.  She decided if she was going to die, she was going to feel as good as she could until the end.  Her goal is to see Christmas and her 41st which is a few days later.  Has a 9 year old boy. 

Her story is amazing.  She an amazingly gifted writer and most of her Facebook posts have thousands of shares these days as she's made them public.  People are really touched at her humor and honesty about everything. 


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8944 on: October 09, 2018, 04:20:24 PM »
No, but people don't respond to emails. They really don't.

I do!  :D


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8945 on: October 09, 2018, 04:21:21 PM »
I do!  :D

Me too. But we've got a huge issue right now with the brass band where people aren't responding to emails.  They'll post all day on Facebook though. 
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8946 on: October 09, 2018, 04:31:14 PM »
I do!  :D
I do too but I find many don’t and it is SO annoying! And so rude!


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8947 on: October 09, 2018, 04:39:04 PM »
Me too. But we've got a huge issue right now with the brass band where people aren't responding to emails.  They'll post all day on Facebook though.

I don't understand how FB works! I never know what I'm doing or who sees what. I keep an account though in case any long lost people want to find me!  ;D


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8948 on: October 09, 2018, 04:58:33 PM »
I don't understand how FB works! I never know what I'm doing or who sees what. I keep an account though in case any long lost people want to find me!  ;D
I LOVE FB! Keeps me connected to far away friends and a nice way to keep memories by way of photos, but you must make sure your privacy settings are set to the highest. I am always surprised when I search for people from the past and find that their page is open for all to see.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8949 on: October 09, 2018, 05:01:32 PM »
I don't understand how FB works! I never know what I'm doing or who sees what. I keep an account though in case any long lost people want to find me!  ;D

I have a remedy for that! Super easy to see your profile as the public would see it.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8950 on: October 09, 2018, 05:26:23 PM »
I do!  :D

So do I. My theory is that if people are actually one's friends, they'll make the effort to respond or to stay in touch. Otherwise they are simply acquaintances. The lack of effort to stay in touch, even if it's only an email or a card a few times a year, is extremely telling.

But then, I only have a handfull of people I consider to be close friends and worth the effort to stay in contact. Otherwise, I answer emails when they arrive.

I have a lovely fountain pen and ink, and a set of very good quality French writing papers and envelopes. And I do use them. ;) There is an art to writing a good letter. It requires that you stop, settle your mind, and think about what you really want to say before you write it down. I find it very relaxing. And if I get a written letter I am appreciative of the time it took for someone to sit down to author it.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8951 on: October 09, 2018, 06:00:47 PM »

There are so many reasons to hate Facebook!

Here's one:
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2018/oct/08/facebook-uk-tax-bill-sales-margaret-hodge
From the article, for the lazy:

Facebook's UK tax bill rises to £15.8m – but it is still just 1% of sales
Margaret Hodge MP says it is ‘outrageous’ how little tax the company pays in Britain


Rupert Neate  @RupertNeate
Mon 8 Oct 2018 14.52 BST First published on Mon 8 Oct 2018 13.14 BST

Facebook paid £15.8m in tax in the UK last year despite collecting a record £1.3bn in British sales.

The social media giant’s accounts show that while Facebook increased its UK income by more than 50% in 2017, its pre-tax profits increased by only 6% to £62.7m. The Silicon Valley-based company’s UK taxable profits were reduced by a £444m charge for unexplained “administrative expenses”.

 Globally, Facebook made $20bn (£15.3bn) of profit on total sales of $40bn last year, meaning it converted half of its sales into profits. However, in the UK only 5% of sales were converted into UK-taxable profits.

Facebook was able to reduce its £15.8m tax bill further by claiming £8.4m in tax credits from granting its employees shares in the company. That means the net tax it paid was £7.4m – less than 1% of its total sales.

Margaret Hodge, a Labour MP and former chairman of the public accounts committee, said it was “absolutely outrageous that Facebook’s UK tax bill is 0.62% of their revenue here; on an income of £1.2bn they really should be paying much more than £7.4m”.

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Face Book pays 1% corporate tax and I pay more than %20!  If only I could just make up an "administrative expense" , except I would go to jail.

Face Book is also the reason Trump is President and the UK voted for Brexit.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8952 on: October 09, 2018, 09:33:45 PM »
It sucks so bad.  She went on a big trip in January to celebrate her 40th.  Discovered the lump in her neck in Feb.  Needle biopsy said it was benign but doctor recommended removing it due to location with facial nerves.  Biopsy showed crazy rare aggressive cancer - not diagnosed until April as the surgery wasn't urgent.  Her body is riddled with cancer.  She did 3 months of treatment and the pet scan showed more cancer than when she started.  She decided if she was going to die, she was going to feel as good as she could until the end.  Her goal is to see Christmas and her 41st which is a few days later.  Has a 9 year old boy. 

Her story is amazing.  She an amazingly gifted writer and most of her Facebook posts have thousands of shares these days as she's made them public.  People are really touched at her humor and honesty about everything.
Oh my - bless her! I am always in awe of people who can maintain their humor and humanity through the toughest of times


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8953 on: October 10, 2018, 09:34:09 AM »
I hate Facebook even MORE now!  >:(
But i need to keep it, as it's the only way i can keep in touch with certain people/areas of my life.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #8954 on: October 10, 2018, 01:30:03 PM »
Thank you Facebook algorithms.  ;D

Given the context, I understand this.  However, that string of words is something you will never catch me uttering.  EVER!   ;D
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