IA: They do want me to stay an extra week to help wrap things up before Christmas. I don't know if this is feasible with the new job time-wise, so this isn't yet settled.
There's also still the opportunity for the higher-ups to be uncool (I knew my boss wouldn't, but they're a bit more…persnickety.)
And…as I suspected might happen, one of the higher-ups called me into a meeting room to chew me out. "Never in his life" has he had someone "do something like this". (I originally thought he was upset about me giving my notice, but apparently he's upset about my not agreeing to stay the extra week they want.)
Let's see….
- At my last job before this, they wanted me to stay on an extra 2 months, and I asked these folks if their start date was flexible at all. They said no, so I came here. (Thus: doing a favour for them in starting immediately.)
- I did ask the new role if they were flexible - and they are, sort of - but it would basically mean delaying my start until January 5, which isn't ideal. It's not like I flat-out didn't try, though.
- Even if I hadn't tried, or was being intentionally difficult/stubborn…do you
really think chewing me out is going to make me turn around and say "wow, you've really shown me the light, I'll work an extra week for you"? Yeah, not so much.
With luck, though, that'll be the end of the angst of this. I will be sad to leave my boss and my coworkers, who are all genuinely nice/smart people. I won't be sad to see the backs of the higher-ups, though (who are kind of nice, pretty smart, but also fairly dickish).